the toliet

I am so angry right now. we had, I thought, gotten over the toilet issue, but when I was gone today my brother came in and installed a very nice new toilet cause they know I said we didn't need one and sue thought it was disgusting. he also put a grab bar on the side for her to pull up on. of course she likes it. it is lower than the one she is used to but will probably be fine. I would have appreciated at least them saying to my face, we don't give a damn what you say, we're doing it anyway. when my kid don't even have a shower installed and the toliet downstairs and the fart fan don't work and the door brick is falling off and the deck needs painted and waterproofed but no they had to put a new toliet in. so be it. it is not that the toilet isn't ok, it is that they did it behind my back under the guise that I had said I didn't want to fool with all that. you can't tell my siblings no. now I will have to move the fricking cabinet to get the lid off the damn thing and although this is mothers house I feel there will be many changes after she is gone. It is in no way my home and this just proves it again. the flowers teresa planted along the outer side of the carport. they are beautiful but none of them come weed eat between them and I don't need anymore to do. It's just the idea and the way they did it. the back ridge needs weeded but it cost in excess of 400 to get it done so they could have done that. I am just tired of being overlooked, misunderstood and treated like I have no brain cause I don't need all the crap they think is important. so I hope they are happy. a few more of these and I will let them have the whole bag of beans. they'd sell the house and stick her in a nursing home in a week, not giving jacob and jamey a second thought. I am just tired of it all and they don't have a clue about most anything that goes in this place.