NOT TODAY

This seems to be the going statement. I have realized that although she never gets to the things she says she will do or cook or clean or sort, she never actually gets to it. She absolutely, somewhere in her mind thinks she will. she is back to smoking all the time and whining cause she feels guilty. she doesn't seem to get that all this money spent and things done around her chair are not a fulfilling life for anyone. mostly her. she is content to sit there and watch things go on and change nothing. I also realize that I have to start making decisions she may not be exactly happy with but needs to accept so we can actually live in this world. aunt lois seems to be settled in well at rachaels. she is very proud of the ramp put in for her. sue is to take her to the doc today. I am glad they all have such intense offerings for her. pete and tim are working on todd and his friends house to help him get moved in. funny, I been trying to get the oak st house fixed for two years. tony helped when I hunted him down and had money to pay(which was absolutely warranted.) he worked like a dog for several days with me. there is just a lot more needs done. but no volunteers for that. I don't know what I have done to make my family feel so allianated to me and my girls or if it is anything I've done at all. they call me controlling and spaz and other choice words but I don't feel any of that in me. I feel like I have tried to help whommever needed it when they needed it to protect or keep from harm. oh well I know if brought up it would all be different whether it really was or not. so I am what I am good bad or indifferent I don't think I can change much at this point except leave them alone and stay away from the hospital unless it is my mother. well gonna go clean out the freezer. Prayers for the day for a reasonable day with no crisis. life is so hard right now and I am having a really hard time picking myself up and making decisions. never had that problem before but the last few years have really opened my eyes to things I was not aware of. mostly I need to just not talk. just not talk. bye now thank you lord for the blessing we have. I do see a lot of them.